Now, Kristof might retort that he clearly stated he was reporting on what Americans working in the grassroots were telling him - hence, the creation of a phony Afghan Everyman - but that is simply kicking the problem down the road. If he is hearing reports that Afghans are not being listened to by Americans, it all but behooves Nick to, you know, speak to some. Kristof may not be as liberal as you or I on many issues, but he's no Judith Miller, ie, he is no hack. The few times I've written to him to point out something I was certain he was factually wrong about, he's responded quickly with back-up. Regarding the objection that "merely" speaking to a few Afghans is purely anecdotal, I have to point out that in nearly every human culture (except ours, apparently) it is considered common human decency to make the effort to talk and listen to other people instead of simply talk about them. The attitude that it doesn't really matter that much whether we talk to others is an American habit, and a highly obnoxious one that has caused an incredible amount of problems in the past 8 years.
And there you have it. We know so little about these countries we are occupying - and yes, that is exactly what we're doing, we're occupying Afghanistan, even if it's mainly a large circle in Kabul protecting the corrupt Karzai regime - that even a well-meaning, well-travelled, and far from stupid person like Nick can't even find a single person from - let alone,
in - that country to consult with when on a deadline. I said "can't" but it's just as likely that Kristof didn't even think to do so.
Nick's behavior epitomizes what is all too often the American Way in international affairs - we're either too ignorant to really know much about other countries or too narcissistic to care. Many of you will say I used the wrong conjunction just now and you're right - most of the time, especially when it involves countries where we're fighting wars, Americans are both clueless AND pathologically solipsistic.
Again, this is not about Kristof. This attitude is so intrinsic to the American worldview that even someone like Kristof - who I know knows better, and who clearly agrees with those of us opposed to Obama/Afghanistan - falls into the habit on occasion.
Despite an occasional expert with hands-on experience - and I'm certainly not disputing Mr. Mortenson's or Mr. Rupp's expertise - we, as a country, have only the vaguest idea of who these people are, what their concerns are, their hopes, and their fears - not to mention their complex politics and social structure, which seems radically different from America's.
Sometimes when I've tried to make this point, commenters have objected by saying something like, "What? We're not allowed to act until we know everything there is to know about another country? That's ridiculous!" Well, yes it is, which is why I didn't suggest it. What such commenters don't realize is that I'm really not exaggerating. We know nothing or next to nothing about these countries. More specifically, we, the people of the United States, can't even find Afghanistan (or Iraq) on a map. We, the official government of the United States, are mostly talking to a few Afghan officials, a handful of self-styled foreign policy experts with limited personal experience in the country, and studying highly preliminary statistics and demographic studies. Occasionally, the government checks-in with actual on-the-ground, but still American, experts like Mr. Mortenson, and that's just about it. Sure there are lots of conferences and the appearance of knowledge, but it's mostly American opinions about what they think Afghans think about.
In short, Americans know exactly enough about Afghanistan to be dangerous.
"Okay, tristero," I can hear you saying, "Aren't you doing the same thing? Talked to any Afghans recently, you hypocrite?" No, I haven't. I haven't been to Afghanistan nor ever met anyone from that country (it looks like an incredible place and I would love to go there someday, if it ever gets stable),
All I can do is respond by saying something that has to sound incredibly lame, but I'll say it anyway, namely that this American would very much like to hear directly from Afghans about what their concerns are regarding both the present and future of their country, including but not limited to opinions - whatever they might be - regarding the current American occupation and the plans to increase an American military presence there. If any reader knows anyone born and, preferably still living, in Afghanistan who would be interested in speaking with me and would get them in touch, I'd be grateful. It will easier if they can speak/write in English but I'll try to find a translator if they don't. The email address is "tristero" followed by the numeral one then the "at" symbol then "mac" dot "com."
That's not much, I agree, and you can - if you distrust my motives and politics - dismiss my interest as the crudest of token gestures. I'm not sure I'd disagree with you (although my request is sincere, and I've been genuinely interested in Afghanistan for years). But as trivial and as flawed as my request is, it's apparently a damn sight more than a lot of the people setting Afghan policy in this country have tried to do. And that is very, very troubling.
Kristof's column is persuasive - Afghans are not being consulted. Alas, he perpetuated the neglect. And his inadvertent behavior, I believe, tells us a lot about how deeply flawed and unsophisticated are our approaches to international relations.